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Wedding Music & Playlist Guide

What to play at every moment of the day, how to brief your DJ or band in ten songs, and what not to do.

Ten moments that need music, and how to fill them

Processional

One instrumental, two to three minutes. Choose something that means something to both of you — this is the one piece of music everyone will remember.

Signing the register

Two tracks, no lyrics pressure. This is when the room relaxes.

Recessional

Something with a beat and under three minutes — you are walking out, not processing.

Cocktail hour

Instrumental or low-vocal versions of songs you love; tempo matters less than volume.

Dinner

Background level, varied eras. Save the dance-floor songs.

First dance

Three minutes maximum. Practise the fade-out so it ends cleanly.

Parent dances

Two to three minutes each; agree the song with the parents beforehand, not on the night.

Dance floor openers

Three songs in a row that your specific friends will move to — not generic wedding anthems.

Slow set

Two slow songs at the hour mark, then straight back up. Ending on slow is how dance floors die.

Last song

One song everyone can shout. Then stop — do not start another.

Start from ten moments, not from a song list. Fill each moment with two or three options.
Write down three songs you do not want. It is the fastest way to describe what you do want.
Hand the DJ or band a "must play" list of ten and a "do not play" list of three. Everything else should be their judgement.
Check the venue's sound rules — many have a cut-off time and a decibel limit.

Lyrics matter less than tempo for everything except the procession, the vows and the first dance.
Ask your band or DJ whether they will learn one song; most will learn exactly one.
Keep a backup device with the processional tracks offline — venue Wi-Fi fails at precisely the wrong moment.
If guests will add requests, put the DJ in charge of filtering them.

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Anything instrumental and steady for two to three minutes. Many couples use one piece of meaning rather than a perfect piece of music.

Roughly ten must-plays and three no-plays. A DJ fills six hours comfortably from a list that short.

Yes — but check it is under three minutes or make a radio edit, and rehearse the ending.

Give each family one slot in the parent dances and keep the rest to your list. It prevents fifteen-song compromises.

Updated 2026-09-26